The Q: My fiance and I are planning a summer wedding, and the groomsmen will most likely wear grey or tan suits. Should the groom wear an identical suit? or a slightly different one? What is the typical way to differentiate the groom from his groomsmen?
The A: Well, I definitely think you should have him wear the SAME color suit (so either tan or brown) but it doesn't need to be the same suit. Typically, the ties are the differentiator, however, you can vary the suit too. The great thing about Grey or Brown is that they are inherently a little more "wedding risque" than a black suit/ tux, so you have some room to play!!! This is from Rock n' Roll Bride and shows you how the Groom's suit was 3 piece grey, while the groomsmen were just 2 piece suits. AND they switched up the ties... I thought it was stylish, but tied in...
One of my other favorite things is to mix in a patterned suit amongst solids. So perhaps it's a stripe or a plaid, as with this groom, also on Rock n' Roll Bride. And, by the way, I sort of love the vests on the other groomsmen, especially for a summer/early fall wedding. Looks buttoned up, but not HOT.
One of our old clients, Tim and Lauren, did Brown suits on all the groomsmen (and the Man of Honor) but Tim switched it up by incorporating a striped shirt with his suit, and I thought that looked great....