Spanish Rose

The Q: "Can you give me some suggestions for making a beautifully Spanish inspired wedding reception. I know wrought iron candle holders and using dark reds can be part of the decor. Any other suggestions?
Thanks!"- September Bride

The A:  I think that this is just a great, and underused thematic inspiration!  I think the wrought iron candle holders is a great start as are the reds, but I want to warn you against going tooo "flamenco" and thinking more Mediterranean.  So, for instance, instead of just the red and the black of the iron, consider adding in some saffron, or more rust colored accents. 

Additionally, I think that there is nothing more Spanish than lace!  Especially at a wedding when it reminds me so very much of a mantilla!  perhaps a lace runner in a deep ivory to offset the iron! Or for a more subtle touch, what about  a lace napkin treatment?  Perhaps a  lace ribbon tied around each napkin in a contrast color?

In terms of flowers, I would suggest that you look no further than the ROSE.   People often shun the rose as too "obvious" for a wedding, but, frankly, there is nothing more 'Spanish" than the red rose.  I think incorporating red and rust colored roses on the candelbras or in small silver containers could be amazing.

Spanish lace fans, in this case, like flamenco, would be awesome favors, escort cards or even table numbers, depending on how you use them!

Remember, with any theme, it's more of an homage, and not an imitation!  That's what separates weddings from other kinds of parties with themes!  If you think it's too much, it probably is.  Remember the words of Coco Chanel- "Elegance is Refusal."